Monday, April 14, 2014


Today a very hard day at my real life job. One of my team members a 21 year old sales girl decided today that life was to hard for her and she ended her life taking a  bottle of pills. Life stopped for  the entire team when we heard the awful news. There is nothing to say nothing makes sense to many question will for ever be unanswered. This post is a homage to her,  party girl with a wounded heart. Techno bishette who needed the bass in her face every weekend. Coming to work on Mondays still buzzing because she was still high on  left overs from the  Sunday rave. Talking about it was a no go "I know I know  Next weekend I am going to stay home I promise " But she never did and she never will be home..... or is she finely where she wanna be?

For me techno music is the music I turn to when I need a deep bass to make me forget deep and dark feelings or to get in toutch with deeper darker emotions. In second life I have 2 favorite techno DJ's  Calrek Nansen  and SAO Tokyoska I got a feeling this is going to be a long and techno night.
Enjoy your week and have fun while you shop until you drop.

Top  =MODA=  Music Mania Tee *NEW*
Pants =MODA=  Suzie Suspender Jeans *NEW*
*HUD With 6 Jeans Options & 10 Suspenders Colors* 

Headphone  RO  @  FaMESHed  Super Bass Rab8 Headphones Baby Blue

Sunday, April 13, 2014


When I started this blog my intention was to write about sl fashion and my love of music. For some years music was the only reason I logged in world working as a host in clubs where house and dance music is played with life DJ's. But as soon as I start blogging music became my second love in second life so I declare the rest of the  month  
                          Pixel Styles Music Month. 
 My taste of music is very divers and is dictated by time of day , mood I am in or the stimulants I take.

Friday when I am done working my first trip is to the local coffee shop to buy me some weed. My favorite music then is reggae with  for me the UB40 album  Signing Off. It brings  back good memories on falling in love for the first time and being stoned 24/7.

Eonla designer of =MODA= DESINGS made some great music t-shirts like this reggae one. Datrip Blackbart from Legal Insanity  made some great baggy pants for the 100 Block Fair . And last menioned but not surtenly not least is Inka Mexicola skin creator of { .essenses. } made a fabulous new skin called Amaranth for The Season Story.
Enjoy the music and have fun while you shop until you drop

Skin  { .essences.}  @  The Seasons Story Amaranth TSS04
Hair  [LeLutka]  Oscar
Top  =MODA=  Music Mania Tee *NEW*
*HUD With  6 Music Genres* 
Pants  Legal Insanity  @  100Block Fair  Courtney Leo Military Green
Sneakers  2REAL  Low Freestylerz
Bracelets Right MG Sugar Candy Green
Watch  MIEL  Troupe Watch 


Chairs  Trompe Loeil  @  FaMESHed   Kings Chair Velvet
Fireplace  Trompe Loeil  @  FaMESHed  Candle Fireplace 
Record Player  HIDEKI  @  The Chapter Four *GACHA*
Clock Apple Fall  Rico's Clock 
Ashtray  [NikotiN]  Ultimate Ashtray 
Whiskey & Cigar Set  O.M.E.N  
Records on the Floor  Second Spaces 33 1/3 rpm Set

Saturday, April 12, 2014


Thank God it is Weekend !  Hallelujah and pass me the joint ...... Busy busy weekend with a birthday party and a school reunion. In this post a Strawberry Singh challenge about giving advice to the new arrivals of second life the newbies or how some of you call them the noobs. I prefer the newbies name it sounds more friendly but I got to admit some newcomers act like noobs.
I don't know if you still  remember the "good old days" in the beginning when you first arrived I was so lost and had no clue what so ever what I was doing. And because I did not talked to strangers that easy ... then ... it took me a looooong time before I had any idea. Berry is asking for 5 pieces of advice but I as you can see I am giving 6 for free.

Meme Instructions by Berry herself: List 5 pieces of advice you would give to a newcomer that has just joined Second Life. Don’t forget to leave a link to your post or advice in the comments.
  1. Buy or find a free AO  ( Animated Over rider ) Standing like a true sl citizen so you can hold your head up high. 
  2. Remember sl is a virtual gaming platform. So take interest in how you look. Elves , furs , goths unicorns it does not matter as long as you look fabulous. If and when you decide to go with the human shape and form get yourself a good skin the foundation of your avi. oohh yes don't wear jewelry with bling bling even if it is free it makes me giggle.
  3. Don't enter people their IM with "Do you want to have sex ? " Please sl is way to laggy to have sex it would take hours and not every body is in this game to date or to get laid. If and when sex and sl is your thing please don't walk around naked in shopping malls or dance clubs with prim or mesh cocks that are way to big. Size does matter you know.
  4. Go to sl search and type in the word free There you get a looooooong list of free stuff available in sl And yes if you are looking for sex you can find it here as well. There are some FreeBee  groups, the bigger the group in members the better the freebees. Camping Chairs , Midnight Mania Boards , Hunts you name it all opportunities to get free stuff. I know it is a lot of work but it is better then asking strangers for Lindens You know your mother warned you about strangers 
  5. Don't be an asshole or assholette   because you can hide yourself behind a pixel Ken or Barbie. Curtice and being civilized costs nothing. Don't treat others like you bin treated in the past. This is "a" second life take it as a second change and break the vicious  circle of shittyness.
  6. Ask for help if you don't know how things work. There are a lot of nice help full people out here who are happy to help you so you "get it"  faster. Don't give up after the first days you would miss out a huge world with great people. Even I got it eventually so there is hope for everybody.
                     Thank you Berry for the Veteran NewB t-shirt. 
                     Available @ Market Place for only 50 Lindens

Skin  -Glam Affair-  @ COLLABOR88  Aria 
Hair Magika Never 
Pants & Skirt  Leagal Insanity @  Krave Inc  Joan Chevron Pink
Open April 1st -  April 30th

Feet  & Hands Slink 
Sandals  MG  @  COLLABOR88  Lotus Flower Blossom
Glasses  =MODA=  Shade Blockas  *NEW*
Bag  =Zenith=  @  FaMESHed  Sledge Leather Handbag Rose
Headphone  RO  @  FaMESHed  Cat-A-Clysm

Location  Fairyland 

Wednesday, April 9, 2014


Like I promised some posts ago I took a trip back to *Frisland* a picture perfect place in second life. If you become member of the *Frisland* group you are granted rez rights to place pose balls and for me that is essential to get my avi on the right place. My question to all is the following  , to respect the fact that the owners open the rez rights for people they don't know out the goodness of there second life heart so pick up your pose ball trash after you are done with your work. Don't be a douchebag and respect the owners and the work they put in to making this place as great as it is.
Before I went walking I did some shopping as well duuuhh...
The Chapter Four has a gacha room and like always with goodies to die for. I am mentioning now the skins from [theSkinnery] 100 Linden for each hit on the machine and every skin  high on quality.
Next stop was FaMESHed and Cocoro Lemon   from *COCO*  amazed me with this 3 pieced suite with shirt and shorts in 1 piece and the blazer over the shoulders the 3the piece to complete the outfit. The great thing is that even with using an AO the outfit still looks great. When you go out dancing it looks a little bit off so that is the reason I took the avi for a walk and still looked fabulous.
Enjoy the rest of your week and have fun while you shop until you drop

Skin  [theSkinnery]  @ The Chapter Four Valerie 11 Honey
Hair ~Tableau Vivant~ @ TMD  Dreadlocks 
Hands & Feets Mid Height  Slink 
Shorts & Shirt *COCO*  @ FaMESHed  Hands in Pocket Light Lime
Jacket Over Shoulder *COCO*  @ FaMESHed Small Flowers
Shoes  *CASHMERE*  Cassidy Heels Wood Yellow
Necklace *League*  Vintage Necklace Working Clock
Glasses HOC  Rectangle Frames Glasses

Location  *Frisland*  

Tuesday, April 8, 2014


Just a quick post today I am home sick from work and need to run to the bathroom every 10 minutes feeling miserably. I love this dress from GizzA makes my avi feel feminine and sexy.
Have a great day and have fun while you shop until you drop.

Skin  { .essences.}  @  TDR FUSION  Harper Light Rose
Hair  AD  Sundae 
Dress GizzA   Belted Dress Snake Oil 
Feet  & Hands  Slink 
Shoes  *CASHMERE*  Cassidy Heel Yellow
Bracelets Right Hand  {Zeery}   Manyan Bangle
Hat  *LODE*  Soulshake 

Bistro Chair & Table  Trompe Loeil  Valiano 
Picnic Basket  :CP:  Sara Picnic Basket Nira 

Sunday, April 6, 2014


One of my favorite things to do on a lazy Sunday specialy when it is raining is reading books. This afternoon I did some book reading with my  own private second life book club.
The 2 little friends on the floor are an *ionic* gacha item for the April round of The Chapter Four and I was very lucky I "captured" them in just one slap on the machine.
The mesh making Gods of Remarkable Oblivion made the cutest headphones a girl can ask for. This one is the "kitty" version but there are "bunny" versions as well.
Both versions are available in the April round of FaMESHed.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend and have fun while you shop until you drop.

Skin  -Glam Affair-  @  Cutie Moon Fair  Brandi America 04
Hair  KOY  @ My Attic  Rust 
Dress The Secret Store @  Cutie Moon  Fair  Sweet Sailor Dress Chibi
Earphone  RO  @  FaMESHed  Cat-A-Clysm Peach 
Necklace with Bow  (Yummy)  Satin Bow & Pearls White
Pink Necklace  [MANDALA]  Pearl Rain Peach
Watch  *League*  Vintage Clock Necklace 
Glasses { mon tissu}  Four Corner Reader  Peach


Reading Friends  *ionic*  @  The Chapter Four 
Puzzle  Second Spaces 
Jewelry Box  *MishMish*  
Abacus  Zigana  
Cat  Bad Katz 

Pose 1st Picture  aDORKable  Nippy 1
 Creator Adorkable Peapod only available on Market Place 

Pose 2cond Picture  BENT  Lookbook 8 Creator Catherine Fairport 

Pose 3th Picture  sr3d Poses Creator Ryz Uriza Available @ Market Place

Saturday, April 5, 2014


Saturday time to upgrade my blog tempo and time to show some new releases.. Like always there is a lot of shopping events open or about to be opened.
 It is the 6th of the Month and I am a broke ass avi already I am basket case when it comes to spreading my sl budget over the whole Month.
If and when you are in to role play  the even We ❤ to Roleplay  is open and tomorrow The Secret Affair will open their doors with The Games of Thrones as theme. I  am  such a huge fan of this series and  I can not wait till this Monday for the first episode of season 4. I watch it in Holland 1 day after the US on HBO and the feeling of sitting in front of the television with the starting of the theme song is getting me exited already.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend and have fun while you shop until you drop

Skin  FreshFace Paris  Snow  *NEW*
Hair  >TRUTH<  Lagertha 
Top {ViSion}  Eva Top Pink *Lola Available*
Pants  {ViSion}  High Waist Jeans Lure White *NEW* 
Feet & Hands Slink 
Vest on Shoulders *COCO*  @  The Chapter Four  *GACHA*
Band in Hair  RO  @  We ❤ To Roleplay Atlantis Pink
Sandal  MG  @  FaMESHed  Barefoot Sandal Bali Gypsy

Friday, April 4, 2014


This is a celebration post. First reason because it is my 800th blog post about the fashion wonders of second life.
I have bin blogging since July 2010 and obviously I had a lot to learn about light and composition.  Learning new things every day about windlight settings and becoming a better photographer and I know there is a lot to find out in the future.
The second reason to celebrate is The Spring Season Challenge by Strawberry Singh. For me Spring is a season to celebrate. Celebration for the days to get longer Celebration on the fact the sun is showing her shining face more often ... if we are lucky.
I answer the meme questions and giving you a song to dance on to celebrate this season of  beginnings, birth and hope for new things.
Enjoy the Spring feeling and have fun while you shop until you drop.

  1. What is the spring season like where you live? – I live in Holland and Spring is a surprising season. The surprise can be negative with rain and rain and hard winds  and chilly nights or they it can be positive like this week with sunshine and a temperature to sit on a terrace on the boulevard behind the  see trough wind screens.
  2. What’s the first thing that pops into your head when you think of spring? – Catching the first rays of sunlight on a terrace with friends drinking  a glass of Chablis planning what to do in the sunny days to come.
  3. Which spring-themed sim in Second Life is your favorite at the moment? – I would love to say my own place ***  Beautiful  4  Seasons  *** but that would be so obvious so for this photo shoot I went to It All Starts With a Smile the home of Kaelyn Alecto and her best boy friend for life Maxx. You are welcome anytime on my sim and on Kae her place as well.

Skin  [theSkinnery]  Quiana Toffee
Hair =DeLa*=  Leila
Flower in Hair Glam Affair @  FaMESHed  Dahlia Headpiece Scarlet
Top Legal Insanity  @  Rock Attitude Fair Tori Rocker Top Leather Red
Pants [monso]  My Overall Dark Blue
Feet Slink  Woman Natural Bare Feet 
Sandals   MG  @  FaMESHed  Barefoot Sandal Bali Gypsy 
Necklace  [MANDALA] Omochi Red 

Favorite Spring Location  It All Starts With a Smile 

Tuesday, April 1, 2014


Yes I know !! I am late in my Strawberry Singh bloggers meme duty I am behind playing catch up ... again but here we go. Last weeks challenge is all about dancing in second life. A lot of people made video's and I loved every one of them  but I had one favorite from Eliza Quixote with the Happy song by Pharrell Williams. I did not took my skills to the video making level maybe I will do that on a later time when my pc can handle more programs.
If and when you want to learn how to make video's go see Berry her blog with tips and hints witch programs to use and how to do it. You also can see  Berry in dancing action herself.

Meme Instructions by Berry herself : Share a photo and/or video of your avatar dancing in Second Life. Also answer the following questions and share your favorite dances and animation stores with us. Don’t forget to leave a link to your post in the comments and share your pictures in the Blog Memes Flickr Group.

  1. Which dance are you sharing in the image/video and where is it from? No dances just  static poses .. for now until I upgraded my video making skills.
  2. Which is your favorite dance in Second Life? – For now it is Twerking because is is hilarious specially when you  "Twerk IT" with a group of friends. Whatever 'it" is. 
  3. What are your favorite dance animation stores in Second Life? – I use a dance HUD from Huddles and  most of the dances I dragged in there are from  AKEYO  Most of the time I don't have my HUD on and get add on somebody else there HUD dancing is so much more fun doing it together.
  4. Are you a frequent dancer in Second Life? – Yes I am, almost on a daily base " I go out clubbing " in second life. Before I was affected with the bloggers virus I was a host in different clubs in second life where house , dance and techno music is played by live second life DJ's.  Music was the  main reason I logged on most of the time. My favorite place was WOODS they  closed for a period of time but they opened their virtual doors again so nine out of the ten times when I need a short bloggers break I end up there. Thank you Ezio and Mercedes for handing Woods over to Leila and Viktor so the bass can go onIf and when you are VIP Member of the Woods group you get updates witch DJ and what music style is playing and also  free gifts are available @ the main entrance.  I waited for the Monday when they are closed , to take a picture there. Making pictures @ Woods filled with public would be impossible with a lazy pc like mine.  If you want to know a little bit more about the clubbing scene in second life read  TUNE Magazine I was very happy that  they used some of my pictures in this Months edition and in the editon before this one Thank you Misses en Mister V for making this magazine * kisses on both your noses * 
  5. Are you a frequent dancer in the real world? – Yes I dance my life away. When I hear music it is hard to sit still and I start wiggling my ass on a chair without even noticing and after some minutes I have to stand up and dance. When it is Spring and Summer time I choose festivals  where DJ's are playing in open air and  when I am there "I dance my tits off". I love going to concerts as well and I hate it when the crowd is not "getting it "and hardly don't move with the music.
Writing this post I got in the dancing mood and got in to my favorite short list of  You-Tube mixes and add a Dirty Dutch mix with DJ Roog from 2008. I was there when the tape was made and hearing it , it it brings me back and got me dancing over and over again. I hope when you hear it you get on your feet as well.
Always smile dancing your life away and have fun while you shop until you drop.

Skin FILTHY  Group Gift #3
Hair KOY  @  My Attic  Rust 
Jacket  Legal Insanity  Woods Bomber Jacket  *V.I.P. GIFT*
Pants {mon tissu}  Harlow Cuffed Jeans Distressed
Sneakers  2REAL  Freestylerz Shoes 
Headphone  [MANDALA]  Eargasm Headphones 

Sunday, March 30, 2014


On this free sunny Sunday I did some sl sightseeing to a new piece of second life heaven called *Frisland*.  On the place profile and I quote : " Frisland is a phantom island that appeared on virtually all of the maps of the North Atlantic from the 1560s through the 1660s. This is our try to let our imagination run wild and create a region related to this mysterious phantom island. Enjoy! "
 On Ziki Questi's blog  you can read where the story of Frisland has started.
For me coming from Holland Frisland feels a little bit like home we even have a province called Friesland so I joined the Frisland Group right away and found an "old school"school and took some pictures.
I will be back here for sure to wander around and for another photoshoot
Enjoy your sl travel and have fun while you shop until you drop.

Skin  { .essences.}  @  TDR FUSION  Harper 
Hair  MAIAMAI  @  L'accessesoires  La Faveur Hat Suede Onyx
Dress ----- Gawk! -----  Red Retro Dress 
Necklace & Bracelets  [MANDALA]  Omochi Red
Pose 1st Picture *flowey.  Your only Dream 
Pose 2cond Picture  Ma Vie.  The Sun 09

Location  *Frisland*